We’ve been schooled on subjects like biology & calculus, but no one really taught us how to make love work. 

Very few of us had a model for what a healthy relationship looks like.

Most of us inherited destructive patterns of behavior, and picked up a backpack full of trauma, drama, baggage over the course of our life. 

We show up to our dream relationship ill equipped to make it work, hoping that being deeply in love will be enough to keep us in connection, desire and intimacy for the rest of our lives.

How does anyone expect us to know how to skillfully and lovingly navigate relationships so that both partners feel safe, supported, loved, appreciated & desired? 

How do we resolve persistent and destructive relationship patterns that leave us feeling disconnected, closed up and hopeless?

How do we come back to love after being in conflict and feeling shut down?

How do we communicate our fears, needs, desires, boundaries and pain, while honoring ourselves and without hurting our partner? 

How do we rebuild trust after betrayal? 

How do we find our way back ‘in,’ when our gut reaction is to look for a way out?

If you’re anything like us, you’ve been through enough relationship ups and downs to fill a library, but you know deep down that the kind of intimacy, connection and lasting love that seems so far away, is possible for you. 

After a combined 20+ years of making mistakes and learning from them and studying with the world’s leading experts in psychology, neuroscience, tantra & more,  we’ve discovered the most effective and lasting way to create Untamed Intimacy, to help you take the guesswork out of your relationship.

In addition to co-hosting The Untamed Intimacy Podcast, we’ve had the great honor of serving thousands of clients, helping them to identify the patterns and behaviors that kept them stuck in cycles of conflict and suffering, so that they could cultivate masterful levels of self-awareness while creating the relationship of their dreams.

Our approach is unique. Rather than focus on the “problem,” which only serves to make it more real and harder to solve, we look for the inherent perfection, connection and intimacy that already exists - but is hidden behind stories, past resentments and protective mechanisms. 

We support you in redefining how you think about your relationship with yourself and your partner, in such a way that all the issues you once thought you had magically melt away. 

We help you:

• Build a foundation of SAFETY
• Cultivate an AWARENESS of what’s happening within your mind & body, and in the relational space
• Develop the PRESENCE to be with your and your partner’s thoughts & emotions unconditionally, so both you feel heard, seen and felt
• Learn to COMMUNICATE compassionately & authentically and to receive your partner’s expression without taking it personally 
• Clear the past and RELEASE old thoughts, perceptions, grudges, etc. 
• CREATE the relationship of your dreams by design — rather than by default

In other words, you get to move beyond the level of consciousness that is creating the conflicts, patterns and disconnection you are currently experiencing and take your relationship to new heights.  

We believe that all our suffering is created in our minds.

With one thought, we can choose to create either connection or conflict. 

When we can detach ourselves from the thoughts that create our suffering -- thoughts about ourselves, our partners, and the relationship -- we create a perspective that is built on truth and love. 

We’re here to help show you that this perspective is always available to you.